Meeting people in life is important. We meet numerous people in our life. So have you ever met someone who seemed very good and pleasant at first sight? Therefore, we attached to them very soon because they inspired confidence and honest friendly feelings in you that may arise in a friendship. However, you will soon realize something suspicious and fishy about them. You would feel that they hide their true feelings and behavior. It’s something different what you saw earlier.
There are people who seem very innocent and honest in the beginning, but in reality, they could be deceitful. Such people are the ones who hide their negative feelings and intentions. However, it will take a particular period of time to determine their true nature. Therefore, once you realize that you would want to leave them soon for good. Sometimes you also would be too late.
Therefore, here are six signs that a nice person has secret negative intentions:
1. They Repeatedly Make Demands
A person may seem nice, but at the same time, they try to manipulate you. Therefore, they can demand their selves. They always believe that they are superiors out of all. So get the work done by other people. Therefore, you always can argue and challenge their words meanwhile you can also refuse to participate in their games. This tricks can prevent you from getting in trouble.
2. You Feel Bad After Talking To Them
When connecting with a nice person, you literally feel positive after spending time with them. It is different when you deal with a wolf in sheep’s clothing, you will be left with a negative feeling.
3. They Show Abnormal Eye Contact and Body Language
Psychological manipulation can be defined as the exercise of undue influence through mental distortion and emotional exploitation, with the intention to seize power, control, benefits, and privileges at the victim’s expense.
Manipulators know how to detect your weaknesses. They persuade you to give up something of yourself in order to serve their self-centered interests. Therefore, if you can examine them close enough, you might be able to see their true feelings up to some level. They always had a hidden agenda so that they can attack the other person easily.
4. They Use Persuasion As A Game
A person with bad purposes who is hiding behind a nice persona will continuously use persuasion to gain what they want. They will pressure you to do something which you don’t want to do. They are pros at manipulating the people around them to get what they want.
5. They Use Humor To Insult You
When they want to say something offensive, they come up with “just a jock.” Therefore, this is a way of taking you down. This will make them happy. They might particularly use this method when you are associating other friends. Their primary objective is to make you look bad in front of other people.
6. Their Conversations Are Always One-Sided
People with a nice look but bad intentions seek to dominate discussions. They try to influence and control you. Therefore, they can prove their points and make you feel guilty about yourself. They manipulate conversations to make everything about them. You will take a while to notice such signs.
But after being around this person long enough, you start to see that you can never get a word in, and the discussion always seems to revolve around them.
I am a Business Management graduate from the University Of Staffordshire (UK) and a qualified personnel officer who completed the National Diploma of Training and Human Resource development at Institute of Personnel Management (Sri-Lanka).
Apart from my professional career in the field of HRM, I am also a freelance writer of web and business contents.