Most of the times, none of us are happy with our lives. We get stuck with tremendous loads of works, never get a chance to enjoy life and at the end of the day we end up feeling empty and disappointed. However, no matter how boring our life is, none of us would like to change the monotony as we fear change. We are terrified of the unknown which is yet to come and because of this fear we end up sacrificing our happiness.
If you are not happy where you are in your life – MOVE. You are not a tree.
If you are not happy with your job -QUIT.
If you are stuck in a job that you don’t enjoy, then you will drain mentally and physically. You will not grow up or learn anything new. So, if you are not happy don’t be afraid to move for another one. You are not old to do so and always keep in your mind that it is more important to enjoy your life than staying in a place where you feel miserable and sad.
If you are not happy being around your friends – LEAVE.
There is nothing like you must stick with your friends no matter what they do to you. if you feel that your friends are influencing you in a bad way then you have the freedom to move away from that influence. You should surround yourself with people who make you feel positive and who has the same frequency as you.
If you are not happy with your relationship – END IT.
If your partner is making you feel sad and feel dissatisfied with yourself each and every day, then that is not the person for you. A true relationship is not one where you will receive endless kisses and hugs. It is more than romantic dates or having endless texts. A true relationship will change you from the core and your partner will help you to become the best version of yourself. so, if your partner is someone who will only make you feel bad about everything, then it would be better if you move out of that.
If you are not happy living in your city – MOVE.
You might be fed up living in the same city for years. But you might not move out as you are afraid to step out of your comfort zone. You would dread moving out as you are not confident enough to take risks. However, you will only be able to experience the true happiness of life when you are willing to take risks and keep in your mind that it would be totally worth it!
Finally, if you are not happy with your view of life – CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVE.
Don’t start stressing over the things that you cannot change. You can only change yourself and how you see things. So, enjoy life in the way it is and be happy about what you have!