Sex is an important natural phenomena. It is the very thing which gives life to itself. It’s beautiful and necessity for any being. Buts sex is being misunderstood along two different parameters in Western and Eastern parts of the world.

While western part of the world is more defining sex as everything, life is defined by sex which tends to perform more of sexuality than really referring to sex.

Sexuality is when sex happens in your mind, more like fantasizing sexual behaviour in your mind. This ends up being a habit to imagine sex and satisfy yourself, which is very much understanding that sexuality has no limit it, the more you imagine the most you can reach your imaginations over running the reality. Men and women with this concept on their minds starts dreaming of women with better features so as to assess them according to their fantasies. It is so inapplicable to the reality because such imagination does not real exist. Finally ends up less satisfied and faces problems in life.


Eastern part of the world follow a completely different aspect of sex. They unnaturally defines sex as a wrong behaviour. They engage in setting rules on themselves of limitations for sex. They repress this entire topic. By doing this they expect to control the overall feeling of sex. Insane! Can thirst be ever controlled by avoiding drinking water? No. so is sex. It is as natural as thirst and hunger.

It is a need that has to be addressed to sustain the life. But it isn’t the centre of it or the extreme edge of it. Life isn’t sex but sex is life. See through the real meaning of this to understand the concept behind this. It is not very complicated, it a really simple natural call, yet defined in two misinterpreted extremes which destroys the real beauty of the feeling.

Defining the sex in pathological extremes had given a fake taste to the real feeling of it. Western world follows sexuality misunderstanding for sex and provoke greed towards the sensation. Eastern world putting forth culture and beliefs has created limitations provoking fear to sex. Both the parameters has engulfed the true view of this ordinary behaviour of the nature.

Sex is beautiful. If we see a flower from a fruit in the tree, we write poems to describe its prettiness. When we see peacock dancing we happily embrace its uniqueness and beauty. It’s all natural touching of sex in flora and fauna. Isn’t it beautiful in our eyes? Do we limit or over think of these prettiness and wild our minds? We only enjoy and consume the moment in its true colours.  This is where we should correct our mind from thinking into confusing extremes.

Sex energy can be relieved only by engaging into it, and living the moment then and there. Any these ways of trying to focus your mind on things that isn’t even there or trying to be a so called good man by denying it are lame as not eating when you are hungry. It isn’t everything of life, life is much more. It is only a foundation to not entire structure.

Fantasizing sex – sexuality, repressing sex – sexuality. Embrace sex, live it. Accept the flaws of your partner. Do not build relationships for sex, build relationships for love and make sex a platform to make it beautiful. Never limit relationships because of sex, explore one another through this by accepting and respecting the availability of one another. Be open-minded. Sex is natural and real. (H/T)