Women who are single are very common said to be “independent”. It is something that surpasses independency that makes them who they are. It is more of a realized zone of freedom that keeps them being who they are.
Those single women who stayed away from going into a relationship for a considerable amount of time are very used to the consistency it has given with the absolute bliss they have realized in the privation of longstanding commitment.
They have achieved an invisible yet irrefutable level of comfort in the silence. Though their obvious reasoning for the behaviour is utterly not in an explainable form, they have this quiet way of enjoying the togetherness of themselves which is not very mutual amongst the ladies those who are in relationships.
According to few assumptions about the perceptive these women’s sensation, we came across few prospects.
It is a general dialog of them of being unaware of what it is like to be another’s better half. The role of being a girlfriend or to be a wife. They find it contented to be relaxed by their own skin than making it up for another or being another’s.
Perhaps they find it very difficult and unnatural to date someone or to find someone to be with. It usually makes sense by saying they are in love of taking a break from the general dating style and circumstances. We all take breaks when we are too much occupied with hardships. So that’s might be a reason behind the pause of the women who are single to remain as they are for a while.
Keeping aside the real reason of choosing their large gaps of relationships. Women who stay long being single are in the eventual goal of being the most contented after all. The percentage of these women settling to be the happiest is higher at the end.
They are effected with lack of intimacy in their day to day life and more likely to feel the discomfort of themselves individually.
The extent of the zone they have reached in making themselves comfortable and tranquillity of the moment by embracing the silence is amazing,
They don’t usually depend on the fact that they wish to share a moment with someone. Instead, they make it happen by themselves and have enough relaxation by enjoying the moment alone.
A date from their point of view is being there for themselves. Caring and facilitating their own selves with night outs, film dates, night at home, eating lunch at the favourite restaurant, making memories are all bound to their heart as a date for themselves. It is never described to them as loneliness; yet quality time for their own.
This habit and comfort of them, eventually make them rich in focusing on their true soul. True needs and passions. Ultimately they will start chasing the life they always dreamt of despite a hand or dependence from anyone. Freeing their mind of having a significant other to come along make them unstoppable and ambitious.
Some would see this as a selfishness. But for them, it is truly the selflessness.
They do not get rewarded of the usual emotional and physical helping hands and happiness of being in a relationship. Yet they progress into an indestructible level of freedom for their own, which most of the women in a relationship will not ever collect.
These women are the do or die when it comes to career, hobbies and personal wellness. They have a vigorous commitment towards their passion and embraced assurance to their goals.
Only being in a romantic relationship isn’t the only kind of love. There more to define the word love in numerous other ways and women who are single knows the true value of the love in its different types. Because they aren’t relied on one in specific.
They are more focused on their dreams and would do anything to get what they love of achieving. This thirst is very powerful than chasing guys for love. It defines you and give a true value and meaning to one’s self.
They never curse or belittle their fall backs they make it motivation and simple celebrate every move. Their achievements alone are strong and consistent. Simply they know to adore and enjoy every bit of life so lively.
They consider their single-ness a tribute for the long journey. They make it a jewel to win it all. No regrets or no hard feelings on never getting to marry, yet absorbed and courageous on the long run.
They aren’t the set of women who are adverse to the romantic relationship. Just the crew who don’t take part in it for a while. Maybe to explore themselves and define what they deserve after all.
They are preparing the platform for a life to be on. Much relied on themselves and their potentials so as to recognize the man they truly need in life.
Their selections wouldn’t be from an outline of a man. They won’t be excited of any outside feature of a man. They will always look for a challenge and encouraging soul. Because they aren’t ready to settle but grow
A man that inspires her to win the world and never doubts her upon the moves.
A man who will be humble on the victories and genuine on her successes. Adores in and out with ups and downs. A person to determine her and standby when the going gets inevitably hard.
They are better and they will look for not the best but another better whod give in as much as she does.
This is all about valuing yourself before you find someone. Loving and truly knowing what it is to be loved before loving someone. Bringing yourself up first to know your worth and find a similar match for the long run. Any who try the way of putting themselves down, minimizing their value and letting go of their dreams to serve the needs of someone, aren’t starters.
These women know where to put themselves to find happiness and knows where the true comfort is. Unafraid of losing because they know how to win all over again, alone! The spirit of being stable in their own self just amazingly bless them and makes them the happiest after all.
Their self-worth on top of every move strengthens them and makes them a compassionate human being. They become goal orientated and will know when to give in and give out. Will be the greatest lovers and will be loved unconditionally for the soul they achieved to be.
I am Jithmini Amunugama. Known Jithu, Jitty. Writing is my passion and living it is my dream. I write my heart off with absorbed feelings of love. Be my guest